You’ve heard it said…
“You can’t be truly loved until you love yourself”.
And, if you’re anything like me, hearing that sh*t STUNG.
But… before you log off and exit out of this page…
Let me tell you about the fallacy in this truth.
Self love… it’s not a college degree babe.
It’s not something you decide, or where something changes within you, and now you suddenly love yourself and can let love in.
Self love is the recognition, moment by moment, that you ARE love. That your natural state is love.
Self love is a moment to moment basis thing – Self love is easier in some areas for you than it is for others.
And that’s okay.
Self love, and being in a state of love, is the constant remembrance that you are enough, even alone. Even as you are. Even with your perfect imperfections.
Self love is something you always have to remember….
And it’s something we sometimes forget.
I’ve manifested the perfect life partner, lover, man into my life.
I love him so much and I know that our relationship is something so powerful that I’ve manifested into my life partially because I was able to get into a place where I believe that I’m good enough, and have enough love inside of me to pour into him and into others.
But I’m not going to lie to you…
I still forget that I’m enough sometimes.
I still forget that I’m perfect the way I am.
And although it happens not often at all…
It still happens.
And I can’t deny that, and sit here preaching about “self love is the answer to manifesting the boyfriend/girlfriend you desire”.
Self-love is part of it, yes. And self-love is SO important.
But babe… if you aren’t completely there yet…
Know that it is okay.
Know that you are still worthy of receiving love, even if you’re having a hard time giving love to yourself.
Know that you are loved by Source.
Know that you are loved by me.
Know that you ARE love, even if it’s hard to believe it right now.
I have no doubt in my mind – You will manifest the perfect life partner for you.
You will learn to love yourself daily.
You will learn to accept love graciously, and to have enough love to give to others.
I hope you’ve found peace in this article; because I wish someone had sat me down and explained all of this to me 6 years ago, so that I wasn’t so hard on myself.
